Showing posts with label personality series. Show all posts
Showing posts with label personality series. Show all posts

Saturday, June 29, 2013

Your Personality + His Spirit, part 5 out of 5: Melancholy



                               “My life is a perfect graveyard of buried hopes.”~Anne Shirley


If you know someone who seems particularly thoughtful or quiet, often lost in their own world of analyzing everything and everyone around them, it is very likely that this person is a melancholy. Melancholies are the analyzing ones who can have the ability to spend hours on end just thinking and brewing over the smallest details. While this type of sensitivity can be very useful for finding important nuances in life and sensing when something is amiss in others, it can also be very harmful because of the way it leads a melancholy into sinful patterns of negativity and selfishness.
My favorite fictional character who is a melancholy is the lovable Anne of Green Gables. Her wild imagination and thoughtfulness allows her to live in her own world for hours on end. Another indication of her melancholy temperament is the fact that she holds a grudge against someone (Gilbert Blythe, to be exact) for years, simply because he called her hair "carrots".
For this temperament, I interviewed a good family friend, K.M. She runs an incredible ministry with her piano playing and communication skills and she just recently started a television show called "Faithpoint" in which she interviews Godly men and women about their faiths.

1. What do you think is one of your greatest strengths as a melancholy? How have you been able to work for the Lord with this strength?
I think one of the greatest strengths that God has helped me to use for Him is to be sensitive to others—to be compassionate and empathetic. I understand what will be a blessing to them, and then I ask God to help me to be that way.
Years ago, I remember sitting and really trying to picture how people felt when they were around Jesus. I made a list of the things that they might experience just by being near Him because I wanted people to experience those things when they were with me.  
I thought about how Jesus really focused on people and how He cared about them at every level. He let them know that He saw them and that He understood them and was interested in them.  That’s how I wanted to be. I wanted to focus in on people and really listen to them. One of the deepest longings of every person's heart is to be understood and I wanted people to recognize me as someone who really cares about them and wants to know them and understand them.
In asking God to help open my eyes to be empathetic, I have wanted to especially notice even the people who might not ordinarily be noticed. So when I go into a room I'm always looking to make sure no one is sitting alone or eating alone. I draw everyone into conversations. I try to notice when people are doing a good job and I thank them.


2. How have you learned to put others before yourself and think about the interests of others?
I think maybe that learning to put the interests of others ahead of my own hasn’t been as big an issue for me because of the empathy God has put in my heart.
But there is another issue that He has worked on in me and that is how I have wrongly judged the motives of others when they say or do things that hurt me or that I don’t agree with. A few years ago, God opened my eyes to see that I was very quick to feel secretly condemning (or spiritually superior) when someone spoke in a way that I perceived as negative or critical or proud. Without even being aware of it, I would take their words and assign them the heart motives I would have if I had spoken those words. I just assumed no one would say or do those things unless their motives matched what mine would be.
God has been showing me not to put my motives on someone else. He reminds me that I don’t know their heart and I need to realize that they could have any number of reasons for doing or saying something—even good reasons. Just because I could only picture myself doing or saying those things with wrong intent, doesn’t mean that their intentions were wrong.
3. What is one of the most uncomfortable things for you to do in social situations?

Go to them. ;) I love being alone. It takes a lot of mental energy and concentration for me to be with people. If I have to go into a situation with people I want to slip into the back and sit quietly in a corner and not be noticed, but usually that isn’t an option.  It’s draining for me to be with people except for a very small circle of people I love and am close to.



4. What do you believe is one of the biggest downfalls of a melancholy?
Not recognizing when they have crossed the line from productive thinking to non-productive thinking.
Not recognizing when they have moved from careful planning to worry; from better self-understanding to selfish focus; from trying to be empathetic to over-analyzing the motives of others. It is so easy to miss this line—the point between what is useful and valuable thought and what is a waste of time and nonproductive, even counter-productive.
I think a melancholy may need to be particularly vigilant to ask God to help them have the mind of Christ at every moment; to keep our thoughts and the meditations of our heart on His glory.

5. Have you seen this weakness have a negative effect in a melancholy's life (either in your own life or someone else's)? What happened?
 
I have been in situations where I need to give prayerful assessment to a serious situation but instead of carefully thinking through things with a picture of God in my mind, I wander away into imagining gloomy “what if” scenarios. In the name of “careful planning,” I’m trying to figure out all the possible ways things could go wrong and how I will handle them.  So my thoughts stray from thinking through something with God’s peace and provision central in my heart to thinking through something with my own resources. I grow more and more anxious as I realize there are so many things that could go wrong and I don't have the answers. Anxiety is settling upon me because I took my eyes and thoughts off Him and crossed that line without even realizing it.
Or maybe someone has said something to me and I’m wondering why they said it. I’ll focus in on it and try to figure out all the possible nuances and just basically wallow around in a morass of pointless speculation instead of turning it over to God and asking Him to glorify Himself in that situation, no matter what their motives were.
Or I might take a remark that someone made that seemed critical or hurtful, and I’ll mentally imagine all these follow-up conversations where I'm brilliantly defending myself so that they will understand me and agree with me and see how wrong they were.  I'm investing incredible emotional energy into these mental conversations and thought processes that are completely not productive or honoring to God.
Instead of being on guard to keep my focus ultimately on God and His authority in my life, I'm instead focusing on myself or I'm focusing on others or I'm focusing on possible alarming situations and harmful outcomes—trying to picture myself handling all of it with my own resources.
And the bottom line is that these negative forebodings can grow to sort of cripple you and keep you from investing your emotional energy in praise, and in serving God with gladness,  and in joyfully finding the life He has for you.


6. Is there a specific Bible verse that addresses this weakness? If so, what is it?
A verse that I have loved for years is Proverbs 4:23—“Guard your thoughts because out of your thoughts comes your life.” I also like Philippians 4:8 – “And now, dear brothers and sisters, one final thing. Fix your thoughts on what is true, and honorable, and right, and pure, and lovely, and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise.”
Our entire life begins in our mind—in our heart focus. When we bring our thoughts into captivity to Christ, yielding to His control and authority, and glorifying Him in our private inward contemplations and conversations—then out of those thoughts the rest of our life flows to His glory.


7. How has God's word and His work in your life changed the way that you address your weaknesses as a melancholy?

I actually see that being a melancholy gives me weak tendencies on two extremes: On the one hand I can feel very confident in my creativity or in my ability to assess and think through a situation; and on the other hand I can be second-guessing and over-analyzing and wondering if I did okay, or if I could have done better.
The one extreme can lead to a sense of pride, a sense of self-reliance; and then the other extreme can lead you to feel guilty or paralyzed or self-focused.
In each of those areas God is teaching me to do my work with “my whole heart unto the Lord”, and to “be strong in the Lord”, and that “I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength”.  He calls me to be faithful to Him; that’s the only standard. Because service and gifting and successes come through my connection to the Vine, there’s no room to either feel pride of accomplishment or to fear that I have somehow failed.
Because it is all done through Him and for Him I can leave the results in His hands.

Monday, June 10, 2013

Your Personality + His Spirit, part 4 out of 5: Phlegmatic




“People say nothing is impossible, but I do nothing every day.” -Winnie the Pooh

Amid the domineering choleric, the hyper sanguine, and the pessimistic melancholy, the world needs a peacemaker. This is why we have phlegmatics. One aspect of a phlegmatic that is especially refreshing is their contentment in doing most anything; whenever I am with a phlegmatic friend and I ask them what they want to do, they usually reply, “I’m fine with anything!”
Unfortunately, this attitude can be used against the phlegmatics,. Since they are overly submissive, phlegmatics are sure to get trampled and used by those who are more opinionated and strong-willed, and they also fall prey to one specific sin: laziness.
My favorite phlegmatic cartoon character is the lovable Winnie the Pooh. He is slow, lazy, and happy with just about everything in life.
I also have several phlegmatic people in my life including my little brother, many of my teachers and peers, and my mom, M.L., who I decided to interview for this post. Although she is very much melancholy along with her phlegmatic temperament, I wanted to interview her because of her ability to overcome the phlegmatic’s greatest downfall with her strong work ethic.
           1.    What do you think is one of your greatest strengths as a phlegmatic? How have you     
been able to work for the Lord with this strength?

As a phlegmatic, I am an easygoing person who is able to get along with most everyone.  Because of this, I am able to fit into most social situations more easily.  A phlegmatic is also a peacemaker and I think God has been able to use me to diffuse some tense situations that may otherwise have turned volatile. God has also given me an ability that I can only credit to Him – forgiving people and not holding grudges when I have felt hurt by people that I love. 

2.    How have you learned to establish a good work ethic?
Although I am a hard working person, it is still a challenge to stay focused and accomplish tasks because of my personality.  Since this struggle is very close to the surface for me, the one thing that has really helped me in this area is my daily quiet time with God.  That one thing can make the difference between a successful day of work and a distracted day of work.  If I can spend a little time with God first thing in the morning and ask Him for help in my weaknesses (which often is being distracted), my day goes amazingly well.  My to-do list gets completed and I am fully engaged in what God wants me to do that day.  And of course, God has promised us that He will give His strengths to our weaknesses (2 Corinthians 12:9).

3.    What is one of the most uncomfortable things for you to do in social situations (examples might be talking to people one-on-one, speaking in front of an audience, etc.)?
One of the most uncomfortable things for me to do in social situations is to be in a group where people know each other but I don’t know any of them.  It feels like I’m a puzzle piece fitting into a completely wrong puzzle.  People are talking, bantering and laughing around me but don’t include me even when I try and engage conversation. 

When I’m in those type of social situations, I have to really stop and remind myself,
 “I know God loves me, He is my closest friend and He is right here with me so I am definitely not alone”. 

This really helps me to feel confident because I know God is with me. Instead of appearing sullen and uncomfortable, I can feel and look pleasant and confident with God by my side.

4.    What do you believe is one of the biggest downfalls of a phlegmatic?
One of the toughest things about being a phlegmatic is the besetting sin of laziness.  In addition to that, our culture has also become very accepting of a placid and apathetic life.  There is a great wave in culture to be placidly checking technology and wandering around the internet, and a phlegmatic is happily geared to float aimlessly in that manner. So, this trait of laziness leads to other downfalls:  Apathy and indecisiveness.  Which then leads to more wandering around (in opinion and decision making) when a firm “Yes” or “No” is required (Matthew 5:37).  

5.    Have you seen this weakness have a negative effect in a phlegmatic’s life (either your own life or someone else’s)? What happened?
I have seen phlegmatics become so lethargic that they waste swaths of time and never develop the amazing strengths that are available to them.  This leads to an unfocused and sidetracked life.  Someone that I know who is a phlegmatic couldn’t decide what to do in college and eventually dropped out, came home and is still there!

6.    Is there a specific Bible verse that addresses this weakness? If so, what is it?
Here are a few of my favorite verses that address the issue of laziness:

Colossians 3:23 (NIV)  Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters.

Proverbs 6:9  (The Message) You lazy fool, look at an ant.  Watch it closely; let it teach you a thing or two.  Nobody has to tell it what to do.  All summer it stores up food; at harvest it stockpiles provisions.  So how long are you going to laze around doing nothing?  How long before you get out of bed?  A nap here, a nap there, a day off here, a day off there, sit back, take it easy – do you know what comes next?  Just this:  You can look forward to a dirt-poor life, poverty your permanent houseguest!  (My interpretation of poverty is poor in life purpose and spirit).

Proverbs 31:15a, 17 (NIV) She gets up while it is still night; she provides food for her family…She sets about her work vigorously; her arms are strong for her tasks. 

           7.    How has God’s word and His work in your life changed the way that you address your weaknesses as a phlegmatic?
God’s word is such a resource for my weaknesses and my strengths.  Because of my relationship with Him and the wisdom of His word, I am able to recognize my strengths as gifts from Him. I am also able to recognize my weaknesses as opportunities for my relationship and trust in God to grow stronger and for God to use me in a very real way in my life and in the lives of others.         

Sunday, April 28, 2013

Your personality + His Spirit, part 3 out of 5: Sanguine



"There is no charge for awesomeness." - Po the Panda


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I do believe that sanguines make the world go round. Without these crazy, lovable people spicing up everything around them with their constant energy, enthusiasm, and openness, life would be rather dull indeed. My favorite character that has the sanguine temperament is Po the Panda from Kung Fu Panda (I'm pretty sure that Jack Black himself is pretty sanguine as well). Po is energized by people and fun; he dislikes anything that doesn't provide enjoyment. He also shows a common side effect for sanguines: hysterical comic timing :)
For this temperament, I asked one of the craziness and most exciting people that I know to answer some questions. She is one of the visual art teachers at the fine arts school that I attend and her fervor for God and life in general is hard to beat. She has some great insight into the sanguine's strengths and weaknesses, so I hope you enjoy reading these responses from a woman I greatly admire, A.M. :)



1. What do you think is one of your greatest strengths as a sanguine? How have you been able to work for The Lord with this strength?
I believe one of my greatest strengths is exhortation. Because I am outgoing, I don't find it difficult to meet strangers and look for ways to encourage them. Currently I work in my church information booth.  I get huge opportunity to meet new people, give them direction and often times encourage them.

2. How did you learn to focus on a task and get it finished?
 Passion is one thing the sanguine personality depends on when finishing a task. If the task is boring and holds no interest it's easy to lose focus and start something else. When I understand my passion and the importance of getting the job done,boring or not, I"m closer to the finish line. A verse I lean on is doing my work unto the Lord and not unto man. It's so easy to get distracted.

3. What is one of the most uncomfortable things for you to do in social situations (examples might be talking to people one-on-one, speaking in front of an audience, etc.)?
Small talk is incredibly difficult for me. In the past I would get huge social anxiety. The thought of a baby shower or small business party would send me running. It is something I still work on but my attitude and God's vision for me has put me more at ease. I can talk to a huge group or one on one, but dead silence really ate me up.

4. What do you believe is one of the biggest downfalls of a sanguine?
Sanguines are not only playful and silly but sometimes experience super highs and lows. Not thinking before one speaks can be very dangerous. That can change the mood in a second. The biggest downfall would be trying to absorb all the attention in the room before asking, "Is this the best time for me to be vying for attention?"

5. Have you seen this weakness have a negative effect in a sanguine's life (either your own life or someone else's)? What happened?
Yes, I have embarrassed myself by being loud and not paying attention to what was going on around me- basically thinking of myself and my own needs. Those who are not Sanguine can become irate with that behavior. Pretty much got told off and put down and it was by another Christian. The result was hurt feelings but a new sensitivity to others. Had to learn it more than once. Glad I have a great redeemer!

6. Is there a specific Bible verse that addresses this weakness? If so, what is it?
Well I have to be honest, any verse that warns about pride would help with this weakness. The Psalms and Proverbs are full of verses that address pride. Pride goeth before a fall. I don't think the poor sanguine is always aware that pride is the weakness but rather they think it's a character flaw.

7. How has God's word and His work in your life changed the way that you address your weaknesses as a sanguine?
Well I have learned to not blurt what I think and to slow down and listen for a better word from the Lord. Before I really understood freedom in the Lord, I could be sarcastic and think that was not harmful. Yet, it was just a another prideful behavior- just having fun at someone else expense. The Lord allowed me the gift of being transparent and freedom to be myself without fear. I would beat myself up and really feel guilty about my outrageousness until I realized, even my weakness could bring him glory. I think about Peter in the Bible and so many others who were probably sanguine. God's word, music and prayer are the prescription that continue to give me success in behavior.

Sunday, April 21, 2013

Your Personality + His Spirit, part 2 out of 5: CHOLERIC

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"I never made a mistake in my life. I thought I did once, but I was wrong."
~Lucy Van Pelt

I love cholerics; no one else can really match the fervor and determination of someone with this personality.They have the ability to stand strong, carry on, and move mountains in the process. If you want an example of a choleric person, just think about any famous leader, and they were probably a choleric. Lucy Van Pelt is also a perfect example of a choleric; she is bossy and determined to have her way, which is definitely the natural inclination of this temperament. But, if this inclination is used in the correct way, God can do incredible things with these strong people.

I know several amazing people who are cholerics, one of them being my aunt, K.D. (I am only using initials when I refer to people on this blog since it is on the Internet for the world to see). She is a Godly woman who is currently raising three incredible kids and volunteering full-time in ministry. My aunt is also one of the sweetest people (in fact, I originally thought she was a phlegmatic since she is so accepting and friendly, two characteristics that are not natural in a choleric). However, she told me all about how God has worked in her life in incredible ways and allowed her to reach this point in her faith. I am so excited to share some of her input about the choleric temperament with you.



1. What do you think is one of your greatest strengths as a choleric? 
I feel like one of my greatest strengths is determination. When things are hard, when things take longer than I wish they would, when things don't go my way, when there are unforeseen obstacles, when things are out of my comfort zone... if I believe God is asking me to do it I am determined to work through anything and get it done.  

2. How have you been able to work for The Lord with this strength? 
When I serve in His strength, my determination allows me to keep going and tackle projects I would never have dreamed myself capable of doing.  He has brought me from working as a nurse-a very comfortable job for me-to a job way out of my comfort zone.  I now volunteer full time for a ministry handling innumerable details covering a broad spectrum-scheduling, negotiations with different venues, travel arrangements,  TV production, taxes, ministry paperwork, interacting with all sorts of people and personalities...  All of these things I pray to do in a way that will make others notice a difference in me and glorify Him.

3. How have you learned to cultivate your leadership skills to be servant-hearted rather than overbearing or dogmatic? Through the years God has taught me to ask Him to see things in His eternal perspective.  He has taught me that even if people aren't doing something my way, their way isn't necessarily wrong, it's just different.  He has taught me that what He is working on in me isn't necessarily what He is working on in someone else and that I need to be patient. He has taught me that I don't need to be in charge or in control to be a leader, that I can lead through my quiet example of service.

4. What is one of the most uncomfortable things for you to do in social situations (examples might be talking to people one-on-one, speaking in front of an audience, etc.)? 
The most uncomfortable thing for me in social situations is talking with people I don't know.  I am shy and it's hard for me to do that. I have been told by trusted friends that I can come across as intimidating because people think I "have it all together" (SO WRONG!) and that by being quiet I can give the impression that I think I am better than others.  God is teaching me that many times people are just as shy as I am and that to reflect His image I need to gather up my courage and speak to people even when it's uncomfortable to me.  I have learned that asking questions is a good way to get people talking and then all I have to do is listen.

5. What do you believe is one of the biggest downfalls of a choleric? 
Having high expectations of myself and others and being irritated/impatient/angry/disappointed when my expectations aren't met.

6. Have you seen this weakness have a negative effect in a choleric's life (either your own life or someone else's)?  What happened?
In my early days of marriage, I would quickly become irritated with my husband when he didn't do things the way I wanted them done.  I felt like I had figured out the "best" system to accomplish things and it bothered me very much when he didn't take care to put things away like I wanted them or didn't do things in the time frame I thought they should be done. I feel like ultimately my irritation was rooted in pride.  I was so busy looking at what he (and others) weren't doing the way I wanted them that I didn't leave time to look at myself and realize the MANY ways I needed to change.

7. Is there a specific Bible verse that addresses this weakness? If so, what is it? 
Let nothing be done through selfish ambition or conceit, but in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better than himself. Let each of you look out not only for his own interests, but also for the interest of others. (Philippians 2:3-4, NLT2)

8. How has God's word and His work in your life changed the way that you address your weaknesses as a choleric?
God has used some books that have really helped me.  A Woman After God's Own Heart by Elizabeth George, Lies Women Believe by Nancy Leigh DeMoss and Spirit Controlled Temperament by Tim LaHaye were all books that helped me realize that I needed to change and I was not going to get anywhere trying to change those around me. These books were full of Biblical truths and I looked up each verse as I read and continually prayed and asked the Holy Spirit to give me insights to the way I needed to change. I feel like now I am so much more aware of my own shortcomings and much more patient with others. I am still a work in progress.






Friday, April 5, 2013

Your Personality + His Spirit, part 1 out of 5: Intro




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 The ancient Greeks originally thought that the Four Temperaments were four fluids in each person's body! The dominating fluid would determine a person's appearance AND personality. This is a picture of the four temperaments. Go to http://www.historyofphrenology.org.uk/temperament.htm   for more information on the history of this belief. 



I love personality tests. It's kinda weird, but I find it so captivating to analyze why other people act the way they do based on their personalities. There is one personality test that I have found particularly interesting called the "Four Temperaments Test". In case you aren't familiar with this certain analysis of people's personalities, let me fill you in quickly.

There are four different temperaments in this test (obviously).

Here they are:





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1. Choleric- this personality type is the LEADER. They are domineering, persevering, and passionate. Unfortunately, sometimes they can be a little too passionate with their cause, sometimes hurting others in the process by running over them with their fervor.








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2. Sanguine- One way of describing this personality type is the "party animal". They are sociable, LOUD, and fun to be around, always enjoying making new friends and going to group gatherings. But, they also dislike any place that isn't fun, so if they start a new activity or hobby, their excitement for it dies quickly and they usually abandon it. This makes it difficult for sanguines to get to appointments on time or to finish tasks.







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3. Phlegmatic- Pooh Bear is a phlegmatic. Phlegmatic people are happy-go-lucky, easygoing, and accepting of everyone. They are also very peaceful and relaxed, not getting their feathers ruffled over much. Their weakness however, is laziness, since they lack motivation and enthusiasm.






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4. Melancholy- These people are the deep, passionate thinkers who are independent, existing solely in their own worlds, being able to pay attention to small details because of their analytical nature. But, they are also the type of people who tend to get lost in themselves, usually buried in pessimism and discouragement. Melancholies lean towards depression and selfishness.


So, there they are: the four temperaments. In case you were wondering, I am a melancholy. I can pick out small details in life and write whole blog posts about them for crying out loud! And I am powered enough by my own thoughts to just sit here for about thirty minutes and write silently, alone in my room. And I just wrote three entire sentences about MYSELF, I guess this is a fourth one too.

Hopefully, you get the point now. But, now what? Well, there are four more posts about these personality tests. Yup, you guessed it; I'm going to be talking about each of these personality types. I am also going to be discussing how God's spirit can really change us, even beyond the bounds of our personalities. Because, as sinners, we will all fall towards the negative aspects of our personality types. The cholerics will bulldoze over everyone around them. The sanguines fall into trouble because of their endless pursuits for fun and pleasure. The phlegmatics will never do well in anything or follow through with anything because of their apathy and indifference to life. The melancholies will crush their own spirits with negativity and INTENSE self-centeredness. Sounds terrible, doesn't it?
But 2 Corinthians 5:17 says, "Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!"

That's the great news; God can work through us to increase the strengths in each and every one of our personalities and use our weaknesses to change us and glorify Him.

These four temperaments are not perfect cookie-cutter descriptions of everyone, but since all of us are sinners, it can be assumed that all of us have chronic weaknesses, and they probably have something to do with each of our personalities. So, I hope that the next few posts will help you not only start to understand your fellow human beings, but understand YOURSELF better. If you're a melancholy, you're probably looking forward to the latter part of this statement. If you're a choleric, you're excited about the former part of the statement, since it will give you information about why everyone else has such a difficult time doing the RIGHT thing :) If you're a sanguine, you probably got this far into the blog because of the entertaining pictures you got to look at and now that there's this patch of writing with no interesting pictures to accompany it, you are starting to zone out. If you're a phlegmatic, congratulations for getting past the first paragraph! Only a few more sentences, okay? You can do it!

So, now, in case you are dying to know which temperament you are, here is a website with which to test yourself.
http://personality-testing.info/tests/4T.php
I'm sorry about the random survey thing at the end of the quiz. Since I'm having fun discussing these personalities, I am going to predict what you are probably going to do with the random survey thing, based on your personality. 
If you are a choleric, it will annoy you A LOT that you have to answer a survey before you get to have your results, so you will probably just pick a random answer so you can FINISH THE TEST.
 If you are a sanguine, the question for the survey will sidetrack you and you'll start thinking about potato chips (or whatever the question was about) instead of your survey results.
If you are a phlegmatic, you probably won't even finish the test itself. Even if you do finish it, the random survey will throw you off and you probably will assume that it takes to much time to fill out one stupid question and just give up the entire endeavor.
If you are a melancholy, you will read through all of the questions for the survey and answer carefully, then spend the next five minutes wondering why in the world they asked you that question and how the website will put your answer to use (that's what I did... just saying)

Anyway, this has been fun, and I hope you enjoy my next few posts as I find verses and applications for each personality type, tell you a few of my favorite cartoon characters and famous people that possess each specific temperament, and interview four Godly women that I really look up to (one for each temperament) and ask them how their personality applies to their faith.

Hope you enjoy!